When I speak with people on the topic of health the subject of ‘responsibility’ inevitably comes up. So I put some thought into why this might be, and a key point kept coming to mind. First, I noticed that most people that do not accept responsibility for their own health usually, and if this is the case are always blaming others and things outside of themselves for their ill bodily conditions.
Saying something like – ‘oh I always get sick this time of year, or that person made me sick’ is a perfect example of something I hear quite often. I believe that if you can change your lifestyle gradually to a healthier one, which includes having a healthier mindset, you don’t have to get sick every year if you really do not want to. Most of us mentally program ourselves to get sick and we don’t even realize we are doing it.
Another example is when we see a person sneezing and coughing, and our first thought is ‘uh oh, I hope I don’t catch what he has’, or we see ads on television that the so called ‘flu season’ is upon us and we think, ‘well I’ll probably catch the flu this year sooner or later’. Thinking in this way, like so many people do is disempowering to say the least. So in addition to acting healthier – exercising, eating healthier – eliminating junk food and fast food, we can be thinking healthier as well. A good place to start is by taking responsibility for our health, whether we are sick or feeling great.
When was the last time you felt great and you said to yourself something along the lines of ‘gee I feel so good because of me, because of who I am and what I do.’ Well if you do say things like this to yourself then congratulations because most people do not give themselves enough credit for feeling good and doing their best to lead a healthier lifestyle. So what I am saying in effect is that it works both ways, you can create your own health circumstances in life or you can act as a victim and be a slave to them.
Once we begin to actively and consciously take credit for the good, as well as the bad health circumstances we encounter in our lives, we will begin to notice that it’s up to us to how well we would like to feel and not so much on the outside world we once thought controls us. A great question to ask yourself everyday is: how did I bring this into my life? You examine your thought processes, correct your thinking and move on.
This is much more powerful than you may think, but of course prove it to yourself.
We can consciously choose to enhance our well-being and health through adding a healthy exercise regimen to our daily routine for example. This will give both your body and mind a boost and you can easily thank yourself and praise yourself for the high, glowing feeling you get after a great workout, whether it be with weights, calisthenics, yoga, pilates, martial arts, etc., you get my point.
Doing healthier activities compound over time and become cumulative. In the case that you do get sick even though you are taking supplements to enhance your immune system, exercising regularly and eating healthy… don’t beat yourself up. Accept that you allowed yourself to be sick and nothing else. Then make up your mind to get healthier and become better, faster than ever before. Don’t get negative, and you will see that over time you will stay healthier for longer and longer periods until you do not get sick anymore.
Yes it is possible to be healthy all year around, you just need to accept that it is possible.
I personally rarely, if ever get sick and I don’t remember the last time I went to see a doctor for that matter (besides my sports related injuries!). By accepting responsibility for my health and everything that happens to me in my life, I am able to stay healthy and feel great. Of course my daily activities, internal exercises, food and vitamin/supplement intake and mindset have everything to do with this.
I almost never get sick. I use to. BUT THEN, come to think of it, when I started this journey of positive energy, thinking, etc. everything changed. The mind is so powerful. Words are so powerful. Lets take my husband for instance. Sick ALL the time. And he will tell you – “Oh I get sick a couple times a year” – when somebody sneezes he is the guy that says, “I hope I dont get that”, me on the other hand says this, “I never get sick”, “I wont catch that”. See the difference? Of course you do – I try so hard to get him to understand this, but some people just dont. I do believe your mindset has so much to do with how you live, how your body reacts. Great blogs – I have been reading them for a while now – I just happened to grab this one to comment on. XO Mary
Hi Mary,
Yes mindset is so key and even science has proved that our thoughts can greatly influence our bodies. Just take the placebo and nocebo effects for example, we can make ourselves well or make ourselves sick, it’s up to us. Glad to hear your positive mindset is having its benefits on your health. Hopefully your husband eventually takes a cue from you and changes his thinking, sometimes those closest to us are the hardest to help unfortunately. Appreciate the positive comment about our blog!
Best,
Tim S.